Testimonials

A small selection of messages and testimonials

“The sea, once it casts its spell, holds one in its net of wonder forever”
Jacques Cousteau.

My Journey into Unchartered Waters!

A punishment spanking expertly delivered by an experienced, calm and handsome disciplinarian.

I felt incredibly vulnerable, excited and anxious when I first reached out to David online. I knew I wanted to explore the duality of my nature: my everyday life versus my deep desire for complete submission and submersion, but it was a heady mix of emotions to navigate safely.

My courage was soon rewarded. David replied promptly with a reassuring , intelligent and authoritative tone. He steered the interactions that followed in a professional, kind direction. He was crystal clear about the need for honesty, consent and safety. This was a great comfort and inspired confidence to meet up and take the plunge. I felt I could trust him and I was right, I was ready to embark on my maiden voyage…

We arranged a venue, a date and a time …..

I am, for the record, naturally cautious, so the idea that I would so uncharacteristically, get together with a total stranger, consent to a proper punishment spanking alone in a hotel room, hours from home was definitely out of my comfort zone ….

Was it really time to ‘cast myself adrift’ and face my authentic self?
What was I doing, I thought, as he promptly knocked on my hotel room door?
I opened it……

He smiled at me, he was dressed smartly and smelled good as he held me close for a moment and instantly my anxiety dissipated. He showed me such patience and consideration that I felt immediately at ease and safe in his manicured, firm, experienced hands. I relaxed and enjoyed his intellectual wit and soothing emotional awareness as I confessed to him why I wanted to be punished. …

And wow I’m so glad I welcomed him aboard and into my confidence. I was ready, eager and willing to explore my deepest needs with him……

As twilight washed over the streets of Edinburgh my journey into the depths of complete, uninhibited submission began. The spanking started off slowly and deliberate, the intensity grew over time. The sensations altered and intensified with the application of each new implement and each new position that he demanded of me. I let go of my guilt and yearned to enter what I now know is called ‘subspace.’ It was a new experience for me, I didn’t want to swim against the tide anymore, I was aching to submit to him and embrace my contradictions….

I got there, it was glorious, I was drowning in the most beautiful altered headspace. A perfect, precise punishment.

David recognised the signs that I’d reached my limits, he instinctively knew I’d had enough, he stopped at the perfect moment before I even needed to use my safe word……

The weather was hot, the atmosphere was hot and the heat was soon radiating from my very red bottom and thighs. Yes it hurt, he kept reminding me it was a punishment so it should hurt…it did!

He was incredibly generous with his aftercare, he reassured me, looked out for me and stayed until I emerged from the subspace I had so willingly surrendered to…..

Within a day or so, the bruises, which were an erotic reminder of my deep dive into subspace settled, the ebb and flow of emotions aligned themselves positively. I felt serene, the cathartic and liberating voyage cast its spell over me…..

Genuinely, come on in, the water’s lovely!

The following are excerpts from a blog post written by a first-time spankee who I had the pleasure of introducing to the fine art of discipline.

For context I have never knowingly approached an disciplinarian or a person of that ilk in my life and I had no real knowledge of how to discover one. This was until a few months ago when I was talking to my new friend and during a conversation he matter-of-factly told me about his own kinks. …

… The spanking itself and the sensations of the implements were as thorough and testing of my limits as I requested. Furthermore, David knew when enough was enough without me needing to cut it short, which demonstrated his focus, attention and understanding of my needs and my vested trust…

The full post can be found here

I’ve had the pleasure of meeting David on several occasions over the years in Edinburgh. Authoritative yet caring, his ability and experience as a disciplinarian is clearly evident. With an array of implements skilfully utilised and expertly delivered, there’s never a dull moment as he sends you on the most incredible journey of catharsis. While disciplinary sessions are intense and no nonsense, I was never in any doubt that I was in safe and capable hands. For the more adventurous, you can trust David to push your limits while remaining absolutely respectful of boundaries. Every session with him feels like a thrill ride that leaves me thoroughly satisfied and looking forward to the next. It’s nothing short of amazing, and I would definitely recommend David for that experience of a spanking good time!

I just wanted to say thank you for a fabulous time today.

I so enjoyed your company & the play, its hard to decide which implement is my favourite, they all felt amazing in your hands. I can’t help being totally delighted with myself – it felt like I took a fair bit of punishment, and that’s testament to you being able to gauge what was going on, how I was reacting etc so thank you. I’m totally shattered and have a rather ouchy bottom, which in a strange way feels really good!

I can’t wait for more.

David is a great play partner especially if you look forward to temporarily escaping from your real life into fantasies. He has very good spanking techniques (the caning is divine!) and he is fantastic at pacing sessions, using just the right implements at just the right level. It always feels he’s in control and that gives a safe, soothing, and calming vibe.

David and I have known each other for more than 3 years now. He is truly intelligent and knowledgeable and that’s what makes the conversations with him exciting, both intellectually and kink wise. He is also a mature guy who has lived a lot and seen a lot, so he’s very open-minded and accommodating.

He is very careful with boundaries and consent. One of the things for which I will be forever grateful to him is how he helped me improve my body confidence through our sessions. The care, reassurance and respect that he has shown me has made a huge difference to how I feel about how I look and how I dressed.

Oh, and also his accent is really charming.