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A session report from a first-time spankee
One of the more rewarding things that I get to do fairly often as a disciplinarian is give somebody their very first real spanking. Sometimes, new spankees have dabbled with friends or partners, sometimes, they've met non-spankos for play and not gotten what they...
Photos from an emergency spankation to Rhodes
Last weekend, I headed off to Rhodes with a wonderful spankee for what could best be described as an emergency spankation. For two wonderful days that we expected to spend in the Aegean sun (and one unplanned, but still just as enjoyable, extra day, thanks to the UKs...
As a disciplinarian, there’s something special about the first implement that you learn how to use properly.
My favourite spanking implement is still the belt after all these years. Don't get me wrong, I love paddles, straps and canes as much as the next disciplinarian. I like small, wooden paddles that can be used with accuracy on a deserving spankee over my lap. I adore...
It’s springtime, so be good to yourself
Spring has started to take hold here in Edinburgh, and I’m looking back at what’s been quite an interesting winter. I don’t know how it’s been for everybody who travels for work, but for me at least, I’ve been more mobile with several trips to London, Paris, the...
How consensual spanking discipline works, and when it doesn’t
I recently wrote a post about therapeutic spanking in which I went into some of the evidence that being spanked can have a beneficial approach, when done consensually and in the right context. In this post, I’m going to delve into a type of spanking that I believe is...
Experiencing role-play again, for the first time
Even though my site is called ‘The Edinburgh Spanker’, I do sometimes travel and offer disciplinary services in other cities. Recently I was in London for a week of work meetings and was very pleased to be able to spank two fantastic women while I was there. One...
Is spanking therapy actually a thing?
Patient 'Natasha' receiving spanking therapy at a clinic in RussiaIf you have even a passing interest in spanking, the chances are you’ve searched for information about it on the internet. It’s likely that you’ve seen ‘therapeutic spanking’, or ‘spanking therapy’...
Why I became a disciplinarian
I’ve been an active spanker for many years, but have just recently started this website with information about me, the types of discipline and spankings that I offer, and how to contact me to arrange a session. I’m not aiming to charge for disciplinary services, and...